Being this is still Valentine’s Day week, there’s the Christian perspective of waiting for the Godly spouse God would have you marry. Dr. Grady McMurty: “The Creationist’s View of Marriage”, would advise a close look at Ephesians. Guys, seek Christ first and foremost. Secondly, be willing to love your wife as Christ loved the church. Love sacrificially, even to the point of death if need be. When your wife feels secure in this kind of love, she will be willing: as a team partner with you: to submit to you.
Pastor Carrie Lloyd has written much including a blog. See www.carrielloyd.org/blog Her latest book: “Prude” is about saving sex for marriage.